What were you thinking?Angus t Young!

I’m sure everyone has seen the rants from Angus T Young about “Two and a half men”I am sorry Angus.I have watched you grow up on “Two and a half men”.I absolutely love the show.Recently he spoke of the show as filty.I am very much into God and follow what he tells us.First of all i wouldn’t bite the hand that feeds me.I have never  regret the fame or my fans of my site”whatagrlwants”.I wouldn’t think of cutting my own throat.It is written that we are to enjoy sex.God wouldn’t have created it if it wasn’t.We are taught that sex or making love is to be done with respect.As far as ladies go.We as men are suppose to respect the women.Making love or having sex between to people who respect each other and its done for the right reasons is the way it is suppose to be.I was taught  this about sex,love and God from a minister that is a friend of mine.I think  people take things to seriously.We are suppose to laugh and enjoy ourselves.Yes the show is funny with the things they come up with.Angus T young ,makes a whopping $350,000.00 a episode doing that show.I would not be degrading  a show that pays me that much.I am sure i am not the only one that thinks that way.You all have seen how long it took for him to backpeddle his statements.I think it took about a day.I am sure  he  regrets everything he has said.I am a firm believer in God.That will not stop me from joking about sex or anything else for that matter.Angus T young,i love ya and i love the show,but i was not impressed by your comments.Thank you,I love and adore you all.

Platonic relationships!Dedicated to Chris demario Boyce

 

People have the impression that men and women can’t have Platonic relationships.A friend asked me to write my views on the subject.Most of the time they don’t work.I can’t say most of the time because almost every girl i know i have a Platonic relationship with.They either goe one of two ways.Either you become friends and can’t break out of the friends zone or they start out innocent and become a love interest.A very close friend of mine i have known since i was six years old.we both love each other immensely.we are best friends.We have been friends for forty years,neither one of us wants to take the chance on us having a relationship.We  both are afraid that if it didn’t work out,it would ruin our  forty year relationship.Neither one of us want to take that chance.We both are in mutual agreement and in the same decision.most of the time platonic relationships do turn into more.they can be dangerous if one of te party’s is married.

It may start out innocent and then become a love interest.Another thing that sometimes happens,it sometimes ;It starts out as Platonic,yet one wants it become a love interest.Depending on the character of somebody,they may act that it is Platonic and have an ulterior motive.then when thay don’t get their way,they break off the Platonic relationship.not all,but most males will act as if its Platonic only to try to get there way.Just like any relationship their has to be the development of trust.Trust is obviously developed over time.Males and females usually can’t carry on the act very long if their intentions are otherwise.One issue i have seen over time, is a guy tell a women or a girl bad things about that person she is dating or married to in order to gain that women’s trust so he can have her for himself.I have seen this happen time and time again.It really upsets me when i see it happen.For example i have been on both sides of that situation.I explained that it wasn’t my intentions by telling her,just to get in her pants ,nor would i degrade the guys.I simply told what i knew and told her to derive her own decision.I also explained,that i will not,nor would i simply to destroy him to make myself look good.

In this particular situation,the girl already knew what her boyfriend was doing.I simply verified what i saw and it reinforced her decision.Platonic relationships in general are great if they work.i have several of them.The reason I do,is because i am a gentlemen and i respect women.Some of my best friends are women.So if the feeling is mutual and their is a high level of trust,they can be great.I hope this helps answer any questions or concerns many of you would have.Thank you,i love and adore you all

Sprituality!

A Lot of times we are falsely accused of something we did or  the way we think.I gladly appreciate and post peoples comments,because i want to know what the world thinks.Just because i print something or say something,does not necessarily mean i oppose or agree with what is said.Recently i was counseling a girl who was suicidal.She had been bullied all her life.She had a very low self esteem.

I taught her it didn’t matter what anybody thought,it was what she thought of herself.I explained to her that it didn’t matter what the world thought.I taught her  that God loves her and that’s all that mattered.She was truly a sweet person ,she just didn’t think of it that way.Well she took what i said and began to appear differently.She put on her make up everyday,she did her hair everyday and she began to physically changed.She  met a great guy who loved her for not what she looked like ,but for the fact that she believed in herself.She recently sent me a message,thanking me for what i had done and for me giving her the confidence.I  told her Thank you,I also told her it wasn’t me who did it.I was just the messenger,that God had done that!I explained that God created She had always had eyes,her hair,her mind and her body.I could not take credit for what God had done.God may have sent me to help.I did what i could and possibly just reinforced what she already had.I thank God that i could help her and he gave me the power  to do so.She truly is a happy person and goes through life with a new spirit.i was just glad gave me the knowledge and the life’s experience to share with her and help her out.

“Kick em” to the curb

If somebody has left you down.Remember somebody is out there that is better for you.All  the time we are left thinking maybe we did something wrong or we made the mistakes.In reality we should feel sprirted that we are finally free from the B.S.Remember that there is somebody that will appreciate the way you are and be glad to have you.In the never ending quest to find out “what a Girl wants”,i have found some simply,some girls do not know what they want.How do you figure out what they want?You don’t!You cannot make somebody make up their mind or decide for them.The problem is,by the time they figure it out.It’s already too late.The person is fed up with waiting and has moved on.It’s really a sad story.It happens more than you know.Even though we still love them, we are no longer living for them.Changing yourself will only make you unhappy in the long run,if you are changing for that person.Be yourself,and if they can’t handle it,move on.I hope this will help some of you out!Thank you,i love and adore you all.